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The Quest Chronicles: Hidden Intimidation

I don’t understand people & I never will. I can’t wrap my head around the fact that people are ok with settling & love to praise mediocrity. As an entrepreneur I can’t help but to wonder and take things personally. For example, on social media you can post that you started a business & receive no LIKES, yet you can post that you got a new job and then whole world is ready to congratulate you? It is me or is that backwards? When did having a business became less than working for “THE MAN”???

It makes me wonder, are people afraid to congratulate you because they don’t want to feel obligated to support you? If they ignore the post, they feel they’re in the clear. Think about it. In their mind, if I don’t click LIKE or acknowledge then maybe I won’t feel the pressure of buying or attending anything. This may be for financial reasons, a possibility that they just don’t care for your products or simply don’t want you to succeed.

Another personal experience: I write for a magazine weekly, yes I get traffic but when I promote it, not many say anything about it. I’ll receive views but barely get a LIKE & most definitely don’t get a share. Recently another writer wrote about me so I posted about it & I got praised for it. Wait a minute, you’ll congratulate me on being recognized yet won’t support what I’m being recognized for. How backwards is this?

Is it quicker to just say congratulations then to take the time to check out what you’re actually congratulating them on? Are we really that busy or deep down inside truly don’t care? Are we afraid to admit that we don’t want to see the next succeed? What’s the real issue?

Let’s switch this up for before I end this.

Why are we so quick to support & praise strangers before we support our very own, family members, friends and or associates? Then again based off studies, it’s seems to be more common in a certain culture… something has to give. We need answers and serious change.

Like always, leave your comments below because I truly desire to know how you feel and if you’ve ever been in these situations.

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The Quest Chronicles: Break up to Make up

Angry make up sex, so much aggression & sweat dripping everywhere! Harder thrusts, more pressure when throwing it back & more! Yes, this is the perfect time to take all your frustration out on me.

I love you Jody! Imma cook,  Imma clean, I’m gonna go make them tacos! We all remember that epic sex scene from the movie Babyboy. Sometimes it’s best to break up to have a fun make up session but is it worth it? Do you have to take it to that degree? Are we antagonizing each other on purpose or do some of us do it just for the perks that we know is coming after? Why can’t we just have angry sex to begin with?

I’ve witness people purposely getting upsetting their partner because they know what’s going to happen later, which in certain cases is make up sex. We’ve all heard that it’s more intense & feels much better that the average. I just can’t wrap my head around the fact that you would start a fight or argument but for “angry sex” later… like WHY?

I’ve even known females who have plotted on their men, get upset, make him feel bad because they know that he’s going to doing something special, give them money or buy a present to get back on their good side. How old are we to be playing these games, playing with people & their emotions?

Let’s put a twist on this. What happens if your plan doesn’t work and next thing you know, there is no making out and they leave for good? Break up but no make up, who fault would it be? What real adult is around for these silly games? I personally don’t have time for the childish nonsense.

If you want to have rough angry sex, we can just have it without the pregame because many of the pre games arguments be messing with emotions and that’s unacceptable. It’s just something to think about. To each its own but I’m just stating my personal opinions as usual but  you know what to do below so leave those comments and share some of your personal experiences.

This is Ms Gotta Love Me herself, it’s T-Quest Tuesday & you’ve just been Questified! Show love by commenting, sharing & following me on social media at TQuestGLM

Email me topics to discuss & QUESTions you may have. To learn more about me or to hear about certain topics in dept please download my app “T-Quest” in your google play store & visit my website GottaLoveMeWorld.com

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