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The Quest Chronicles: Self Love

I love you but I love me more! Easy to say & write but is it true? Do we show this through our actions? How much do we really love ourselves?

We all can talk but some can’t back it up. I hear a lot of people always complaining about not feeling love from others but what about self love? You have to be your biggest cheerleader & your number one fan. When was the last time you supported oneself, treated yourself, better yet,
When was the last time you made sure YOU were ok?

Someone like me is so quick to put on my cape to help the next person and constantly forgetting about ME! I can be at my shows performing or hosting, making sure everyone is eating, drinking and having a good time then go home partially dehydrated & starving. How could I forget to make sure I was taken care of before others? Ready to jump for the rest but move at a slow pace when it comes to myself. As usual, I’m only speaking for ME and my personal experiences. These are my truths.

Tell me if any of this sounds familiar. Many of you hop in your vehicle, maybe half put on their seat belts while some risk their own lives on the highway, speeding & texting while driving without a care in the world.

Let’s not forget about the ones who live on the wild side doing drugs, in the club getting drunk & regularly eating so much unhealthy food. Is this how we show love to our self? Putting our lives in dangerous as if it’s no big deal?

Yet, you always hear others trying to drill it in your head that you should do this and you should do that. People always have the answers to everyone else problems but what about your own?

Let’s find the balance in life. It’s ok to extend a hand to help others, It’s a great quality to call or visit family and friends to make sure they’re doing well, making sure the sick is taking their medicine, making sure the children are eating their fruits and vegetables to grow up healthy and strong. It’s great that you cater to your significant other, making sure their happy but remember, we all came into this world alone. We were an individual before we became a spouse, parent or friend. Don’t always put yourself on the back burner even though its easy to do. Always remember to LOVE yourself first. You deserve it!

This is Ms Gotta Love Me herself, it’s T-Quest Tuesday & you’ve just been Questified! Show love by commenting, sharing & following me on social media at TQuestGLM

Email me topics to discuss & QUESTions you may have. To learn more about me or to hear about certain topics in dept please download my app “T-Quest” in your google play store & visit my website GottaLoveMeWorld.com

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The Quest Chronicles: Happy New Year

New year, new me… cut the crap! Same nonsense we hear every year! Shut up already, you’re annoying! You’re not changing, just talking! Wow, did I really just go there? I sure did BUT this is not me talking, this is what I hear from others.

Like clock work, right after Christmas, all the new year resolutions start being the discussion for the next week. Many post about the changes they want for the up & coming year & just as many people are complaining about the people posting it. Some complain that people have the same resolutions every year & nothings changes so just stop. Nobody wants to read this every year! I shake my head & live my life. You want to know my opinion on the subject? It’s actually different from the average person… what a shocker! LOL

Me personally, I consider my birthday (Oct. 20th) my new year. That’s when I reflect more on my life, what I’ve accomplished and what I want to achieve in the up & coming year. If it’s a same goal, I’ll think of a new way to tackle it to get it done. January 1st comes along and to me it’s just another day. This year was the first year I went out & actually had a good time but even if I didn’t, I would have been just fine.

Now back to the resolution crew! I actually love you all. If it takes January first to get you to even attempt to make positive changes in your life, I applaud you. Even if you don’t succeed, I commend you for making an effort but others don’t even do that. In a way. January 1st gives people a boost of confidence to do something positive in this negative world…. I’m all for it. If your resolution is the same every year, my advice to you is to come up with a new strategy to make it happen. I want to hear about resolutions and see people actually completing them more.

It’s 2019, a new year so be excited to walk in your newness! Set goals, be serious about them & make it happen! I’m rooting for you!

Just curious, what are your new year resolutions? How realistic are you going to be with yourself? How determined are you to complete these goals? Let me know! 😀

This is Ms Gotta Love Me herself, it’s T-Quest Tuesday & you’ve just been Questified! Show love by sharing & following me on social media at TQuestGLM

Email me topics to discuss & QUESTions you may have. To learn more about me or to hear about certain topics in dept please download my app “T-Quest” in your google play store & visit my website GottaLoveMeWorld.com

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