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The Quest Chronicles

The Quest Chronicles: What Just Happened?

I remember people used to call me bipolar because I would switch up on them real quick. One moment I could be smiling and then the next moment I could be upset. Now, I do not condone anyone making fun of anyone with a special condition but this is just what they would call me. I must admit I would switch up on people but with good reason.

Growing up alone, I stay having more thoughts in my head than the average. I could experience a situation, fix the problem in my head then react differently very quickly.There’s a lot going on in this world to dwell on certain things too long. If I’m having a conversation with someone and they make me upset, I take a moment to process as many should. The next time they speak to me they may think i’ll still be upset then surprisingly realize that I was completely fine.

Many situations don’t deserve too much energy and that’s a problem for a lot of people. Now, there are times where you want to be petty because people are pissing you off and I’ve had moments like that but then turn into an adult and dead the situation. Sometimes my actions may freak people out which is quite comical to me. I’m just realistic to reality.

We spend so much time dwelling on nonsense and I refuse to do that. Have your moment, learn your lesson and move on. Easier said than done as usual but still have to be said. Life is turn, time is precious, use it wisely.This is Ms Gotta Love Me T-Quest & you’ve just been Questified! Show love by commenting, sharing & following me on social media @TQuestGLM

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The Quest Chronicles: The Secure Man

Topic: The Secure Man

Dating should be fun but it’s hard for many people. Trying to date while in the entertainment industry is even harder. Being a socialite, public figure or someone who is very easy on the eye attracts attention too.

With that being said, when trying to date someone who is popular you have to be aware that it comes with many factors that most can’t handle. I myself as a popular public figure can’t be with an insecure man. Even when it comes to talking to guys on a regular level; there’s stipulations that comes with that as well.

When you’re not officially in a relationship or dating exclusively, you have to know that there may be others in the picture. That’s not a bad thing nor should you make someone feel as if their doing something wrong for giving more than one person some attention.

Not saying I encourage people to sleep with everyone their talking to. All I’m saying is, in order to find who’s right for you; you have to give the options a chance. If i’m conversing with a guy, he must know that he may not be the only guy i’m talking to but may have my attention the most.

Once I feel that the situation is something I want to explore and make exclusive then in that moment is when the others will slowly get cut off. I try my best to be open & honest with everyone I’m talking to or whatever so there’s no gray area. I am a woman who knows what she wants, needs and desire.

If you ask me a question, be prepared for a real answer. If you’re tying to date me or any other woman like myself, if you’re not secure enough to handle what comes along with the journey then save yourself the embarrassment and make room for the man who’s suppose to be there.

This is Ms Gotta Love Me herself  T-Quest  & you’ve just been Questified! Show love by commenting, sharing & following me on social media @TQuestGLM

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The Quest Chronicles: Date With Caution

Everyone wants to be loved, in love, in strong like or whatever but make sure that you date with caution especially in these times. So much is going on and society has changed. Not only economically but when it comes to dating & relationships as well.

During these trying times, it’s been hard on many of us especially people in relationships or desiring to be in one. I Heard during this pandemic, it has been testing relationships. Many people haven’t spent this much time with one another and are starting to see sides of their partners that they’ve never seen before. I guess it goes back to knowing who you’re with. Now if we flip it to single people, this is another story.

Many of them are envious of people in relationships because they wish they had a permanent quarantine bae to snuggle with, have sex with everyday & live their best lives but that’s not the case. Now that everyone is home, this is giving people a chance to converse more and date online. This can be a great thing but it’s all about what you do with it. Once people start to show an interest in another, they want to meet up asap which is cool and I can understand that. At the same time, I encourage them to slow down.

This is the perfect time to really get to know that person you may be interested in. During these quarantine times, every personality inside is being tested. Here’s your chance to see how others react to certain situations such as deaths, sicknesses, stress because of bills, being stuck in the house, dealing with family, businesses and more. Take notes & see if those reactions will get your approval of the person you want to be with.

Also, let’s not be upset that we can’t go on too many dates but take advantage of this time to get to know who we may be with and who may be potential bae. If you do decide to  hang out together, proceed with caution.  Places may be slowing opening up, doesn’t mean Corona is gone. Have fun to a certain degree but be careful. 

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The Quest Chronicles: Who Am I?

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As a radio personality & Love Guru, I’m constantly in the midst of a conversation about everyone’s favorite subject: Relationships. Many of my platforms consists of single people who are looking and desiring love. Many of them have their do’s and don’t as well as their deal breakers. The interesting part is, so many of them THINK they know what they want but in all honesty, they don’t. One of the main reason’s why is because they don’t know who they are.

Many are in relationships but are not happy. Some may find themselves in situation-ships and not sure how to take it to the next level. There are individuals who are in the dating phase & not sure what to do & what to look for. Everyone desires love but don’t know who to retain it but have to realize it starts with self. Before you on a love search, try soul searching first. How can someone truly get to know you if you don’t even know yourself?

Ask yourself these questions. What do you really want & desire? What truly makes you happy? Are you whole within? Are you still healing from past hurt and break ups? What are a few things you want to avoid when stepping into something new?  What can truly put a smile on your face? Do you know how to self love, self heal and self fulfill or is someone else always needed?

These are just a few questions to get you started. Everyone deserves love but love yourself first. Continue to heal and get to know YOU. Becoming a better you would be more healthy in a new relationship trying to blossom. Who am I?

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The Quest Chronicles: Even The Strong Cry

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You are so brave. You are so strong. “Thank you” should be the response, correct? Is this a compliment? Can it be received well all the time because last I checked, some of my  friends are on the verge of breaking. Many of us have been taught to be strong, how to survive, how to maneuver through tough times.

During deaths, we have to be strong for others. As parents we have to be strong for the kids. Through breakups & divorces, we have to be strong for the family or whomever. What about us? Yes, we know how to move on but don’t you think we hurt too? I speak to many strong individuals personally and when we have serious talks, many of them can’t help but to break down because they’re tired and hurting. Exhausted, confused, lost and unhappy but can’t show it.

It beaks my heart to see this but to be honest, it’s not uncommon. We wish we didn’t have to always hide it. It would be nice to have people who can actually help fix many of the problems. We wish we can have a moment of clarity to figure out some things out but it doesn’t always happen like that. Yes, the weak is going through but the strong is going through their battles as well.

Remember that phrase “Check on your strong friends”? It’s real. Many may say they’re okay but deep down inside they’re not. They’re human, going through this experience we call life and hurt just like everyone else. If they don’t allow you IN, just respectfully remind them that you are here for them, give them a random hug, find a way to put a smile on their face & just show up. It’ll be appreciated.

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The Quest Chronicles: Misdirected Energy

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Life is not perfect & we all go through things. The pressure of society, jobs, relationships, family and more can get the best of us. Trying to keep face, stay positive & be a superhero can be a bit too much and all we can do is try not to spazz out. When we’re sick or down for the count many of us who’s usually the strong ones doesn’t always feel comfortable with others trying to help or continuing checking up on us. We tend to snap and be like, “I’m good, stop trying to baby me!”

We’re all human & have the right to a few bad moments, days and more but what we need to stop misdirecting the energy to the wrong people. It’s so hard to find people who genuinely care so when you do have those special individuals in your corner the last thing you want to do is push them away. Now, if they know your heart, then they won’t take it the wrong way. They’re aware you’re just having a moment but we have to try not to have too many of these moments because they don’t deserve the backlash.

Have your moment, find ways to calm yourself down, find your happiness and don’t snap on your loved ones. Appreciate them for wanting to be there for you and know they hover, check in and show extreme concern because they truly care about your well being.

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The T-Quest Show: J Nasty Interview

Nothing like a blast from the past, especially when it’s a good one. I was contacted by an artist who wanted me to check out his music. In the midst of the conversation, he mentioned that we actually knew each other from years prior.  Once it clicked, I was eager to listen to his music even more & I was impressed.

J’Quan Towns also known as J Nasty is a 27 year old on the rise. He grew up in Waterbury CT, taken from his mom at the age of 8 and was placed in the system D.C.F. In his music he talk s about life experiences, like growing up in D.C.F and things that everyone can relate to, Music is very therapeutic to him. As of today J Nasty has constructed 5 different original albums and managed to release his 1st album Broken Chains back in 2012.  The project was based off his struggles, trials & tribulations in his pass life.

J Nasty is a go getter! He’s worked with Legendary Dj Ron G, Dj Young Cee, Hitman Holla, Cassidy, Dj Hawk, Kid Fresh, and more. He’s also had the opportunity to meet Grandmaster Caz, Dj Meechi, Dj Buck, Dj Billy Busch, Jennyboomboon, Dj G Money Da Prince, Dj Bigg Mann, Dj Santo and still counting.

Be on the lookout for a few solo projects by him and a 2nd album. The movement he has called S.H.S.C (Stop Hatin Start Creatin) will be bringing you  a brand new sound  & new music as well. Take the time out to listen to his interview on The T-Quest Show . Get to know the man behind the mic as we discuss his new single Love Birds & more. There’s something about him, I see nothing but fortune in his future. Humble yet talented, J Nasty is a future star.

Instagram: @nastydahitmaker
Soundcloud: j-nasty18
YouTube: jnasty181 & j-nasty towns
Twitter: nastytowns
Movement: SHSC (Stop Hatin Start Creatin)
Label: Start Creatin Records

https://anchor.fm/TQuestGLM/episodes/The-T-Quest-Show-J-Nasty-Interview-eco7mv

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The Quest Chronicles: Do Your Research

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With so much going on in the world, I could only imagine the thoughts running through your heads. The question is, what are you going to do with them? Money is tight so now what? Are you going to sit around crying, stressing & be mad at the world or are you going to do something about it? Yes, millions of people are out of work and suffering together but there are still companies out there needing workers. We are not completely shut down so please do your research.

This is a tough time for small businesses and entrepreneurs especially the ones in the music world where all our gigs have been cancelled and there goes our money. Did you know there’s millions of dollars in grants just waiting for you to grab? Yes, it will take time but it can happen. Do you research & see if you can get a piece of the pie. Everyone  is at home right now & have access to the internet. When was the last time you used it to do your research about At-Home jobs? You are aware that they do exist and still striving?

We all hear people constantly complaining about getting healthy, working out and losing weight. If  You do your research, you would know it’s 70% diet & 30 % exercise on average. Stay productive, eat better, meal prep as much as you can. You have more time to do it now. Create you own At-Home gym. Something as simple as dancing to get your cardio in is a great way to sweat. Many deejays are going LIVE so turn on your social media & get to it!

I’m not trying to make light of what’s going on. Many are getting sick, losing jobs, losing their lives & more. All i’m trying to say is, stay positive, stay focus, healthy & do your research.  Take advantage of this time we have now as much as you can for your own sanity. Our situations are bad but with a little effort, they can be better. I believe in you, do you believe in yourself?

This is Ms Gotta Love Me herself, it’s T-Quest Tuesday & you’ve just been Questified! Show love by commenting, sharing & following me on social media @TQuestGLM

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The Quest Chronicles: Mind Racing

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With everything going on in society right now, my DMs have been at an all time high. Everyone is grounded so they’re forced to chill out. In the midst of relaxing you can’t help but to think about a lot of things. Your life, family, friends, relationships good or bad all come to mind. It’s kind of like when you go to a wedding or funeral, you tend to look at things especially in your personal life in a new perspective. Thoughts are racing and are fingers start to put in work!

I noticed many guys have been contacting me especially from the past. On the surface many may think it’s because they’re home bored & need to contact someone that can put a smile on their face or something. I’m telling you right now, that is not the case. Many have been hitting me up because they thought about their life, the part that I played it in & how they messed it up.

They begin to realize, I was a good woman that they didn’t take serious in the moment they may have had my attention and now trying to make it right. Some have even went as far are spilling their whole hearts out to me, telling me how much they miss me & more. I even had a few guys state that since the world is coming to an end, they mind as well tell me that they’ve always had a crush on me &  was afraid to tell me. Let me guess, no time like the present now huh?

I say all that to say this, with all we’re dealing with & now that you have even more time to think, what’s been going on in your mind? Have you thought about things you would have did differently? Have you took the time to realize certain people and the impact they truly have on your life, wanting to make an effect to make things right with the ones you’ve done wrong? Has this situation change your mindset? Inquiring minds wanna know.

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The Quest Chronicles: Go Dj!!!

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During this difficult time we’re facing, there’s a darker cloud above our heads but no need to worry. The Djs & entertainers are here to put a smile on your face! All you have to do is go on Facebook, Instagram or Tik Tok & get ready to be entertained. As an entertainer, the majority of my social media friends are djs so it’s like a 24hr party on my timeline and I’m not mad at it. Of course, I had to take a break to entertain my own fans but back to jamming I went.

I felt like I was in a club and every room had a different genre and tempo playing. One minute I’m singing along as if it was karaoke & the next minute I’m twerking as if I wasn’t brought up in the church. Please forgive me father for I have sinned and will do it again. Not my fault, blame my fellow Djs for keeping the music rocking.

This is the time, we need to come together to spread love and happiness especially through the music. All entertainers whether djs, music artists, models, comedians, etc need to take advantage of this moment. Many of us started to do what we do as therapy now it’s time for our talents to be used as therapy for others. Let’s try our best to stay as positive as much as we can & keep the music going

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