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The Quest Chronicles: Cuddle Season

It’s cuddle season! Get ready for all your ex stalkers & admirers to slide back in your DM after thoting all summer talking about “what’s up big head?”

The weather is changing, the leaves are  turning colors & falling. I should be focus on the beauty of natural & not your foolery so keep that same energy you had during hot girl-city boy summer.

How does that work exactly? Do you find someone you’re interested in, shoot your shot, wait patiently then go :do you” for summer if they take too long?

I already see the memes for Big Boy/Big Girl Season because its definitely getting cold out there but at the same time, holiday season is approaching as well. In other cases, people like to break up around this time to avoid meeting families & buying gifts. What has this world come to?

Are relationships just a part of life or a game to people? Do feelings matter? What happened to commitments? Are people seriously strategizing relationships based off seasons, hormones & money spent?

  • So while you’re cuddled up with your new victim, as the big spoon or little spoon answer me this… Why continue to play the game? I want to hear from you all so don’t be shy to leave a comment below.

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The Quest Chronicles: Trust Issues

The last couple of weeks has been interesting to me. I had my T-Quest Tuesday Competition before I went to Jamaica for my birthday gig & it was incredible! Just so happen to run into an old friend from high school who told me she was running for Alderman in our city! Excited to hear that, I gave her my mic to speak to the people about the importance of voting.

I also interviewed her on my radio show & after hearing what she had to say, I decided to go out there & help her with the campaign. She opened my eyes to looking at politics in a new perspective but my biggest concern before, during helping (knocking on doors, making calls) & after is TRUST.

Many great candidates didn’t win because of popularity & the fact that the people in their area didn’t go out to vote. Why, because they no longer trust politics. They feel they’re not really here for the people, especially not in a positive way. So once great candidates like my friend Leslie Navarrete as well others barely had a chance.

Politics remind me of relationships. When you meet a potential candidate in the race for your heart, they speak their spiel to capture it & then end up not delivering. Leaving you with trust issues for the next one. Toxic pattern we wish we could avoid. So when the right one comes around with good intentions we tend to have a wall up & most won’t get a chance to break it down.

Where do we go from here? How do we change this? Politics as well as the dating scene. I guess, it’s just best to take it slow, do your research & take chances. You can’t assume everyone is bad or you’ll miss out on an opportunity of being with someone great or having someone great in the right position 😀

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The Quest Chronicles: Take A Moment

Take a moment to think about what truly makes you happy. Even if it’s something that puts an instant smile on your face. Perhaps a song that once you hear it, you want to get up a dance. How about when you finally put that fork in your mouth with hot goodness on it. Yummy! Possibly the moment you’re doing your favorite activity. A moment when your minds is not thinking about work, stress, sadness, just a moment of pure happiness.

We need more of that. Time management is everything. I know many of us is consumed with so much that we feel we don’t have time for SELF but I challenge you all to dedicate 3 to 10mins a day to yourself. Even if it’s just you turning on your favorite jams or a moment in your car without no one around just for peace. You owe it to YOU. You deserve plenty of happiness but in the meantime if your lacking, try giving it to yourself with this small task.

Many look to others to make them happy not knowing they have the capability of doing it themselves. Just like birthdays, I recently celebrated mines & treated myself to a trip to Jamaica. Why, because I deserved it & a moment or shall I say week of peace & serenity was needed. I didn’t wait on others to get me anything or do anything for me. I had to make sure I was good for myself. The saying is NOT, “we only live once”… we live everyday & we die once so make the best of it. Grab a book, run a bath, turn on some comedy & crack a smile!

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The Quest Chronicles: Outgrown

As we get older, the dynamic of life changes. Work load gets heavier with more responsibilities. Some get married, start to have children & less time to hang. Have you notice your circle is either tight knit or slowly starts to change as you grow in life? Have you ever looked at your friends & wonder “why are we still friends?” Do you eventually just tolerate them after a while because you’re just use to them? Sorta like family? Is that even healthy?

I’ve seen many groups of friends who have stayed together for years, some who have drifted apart, some who feel compelled to stay because of the history. There’s some who don’t even realize their friends are the ones who need to go, not knowing they may be holding you back from blossoming to your full potential.

I know a group of guys who have been friends since preschool, 30 years later, they are still a tight group, flourishing in their careers, started families & living their best lives.

Sometimes I look at my friends & its obvious why we’re friends but at the same time, I question if I’m happy in the friendship. The same questions I’ll ask if I was evaluating an intimate relationship. Am I letting things slide or be overlooked because we’re friends yet in reality, continuinly being let down & just not saying anything?

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not trying to tell people to reevaluate every person in their lives but just open your eyes to certain signs. It may help you in the long run.

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The Quest Chronicles: Please Keep Pushing

T-Quest For the Turn Up is REAL! October 1st started my Questober Birthday month tour & boy has it been an interesting QUEST already! What made it even more dope is the fact that it started on T-Quest Tuesday! Now, was I excited about leaving 90 degree weather down south to come up to 40 degree weather here in the tri-state, NOT AT ALL but it is what it is! The highlight besides seeing my family was seeing the reaction of the people who realized I was back in the state. To see their faces almost made me tear up & let me tell you why.

As an entertainer & entrepreneur we work so hard on our craft to get it out there to our fans, customers & clients. Sometimes when we don’t see the support, bookings or raise in sales, we tend to get discourage. Start to feel as if we’re not doing the right things, not promoting enough or getting the proper support we desire but we have to keep pushing!

They may not interact as much as you want but they are watching, reading, looking & receiving more than you can imagine. I randomly receive messages & emails from people thanking me for my blogs, songs & radio shows because it has helped them in their lives as individuals, in their relationships as well as in business. Boy, do these messages warm my heart. They’re paying attention!

Just like at my shows I been doing, I sometimes don’t realize the impact I have on others. Being around me, taking in my positive energy, hearing my voice or my warm embrace is exactly what they been missing. The smiles are priceless

I write this to say, when your time comes just be ready, stay ready because they’re watching. You’re doing great, just don’t give up. Things may not move as fast as you want but I’m sure someone is admiring from a far for now so keep giving them something to admire. When your time comes, get ready to shine baby! 😏

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The Quest Chronicles: Dump Them Already!

How many of you have those friends that always come to you complaining about their boyfriend or girlfriend?  To the point you’re trying to figure out why are they still together? What’s keeping you there? Kids? Stability? The Sex?

I know for sure that as the “go-to” friend, my ears get tired after a while. Yes, I’m here to listen when you’re going through relationship problems but i’m also here to listen to happy moments too! Do you have any? If not & the relationship’s that bad… LEAVE!

I realize some people enjoy confrontation, raising their voices and pretty much acting a fool. Even when they come to me for advice, they never actually use it. They turn around and be like ” I should have listened to you” OBVIOUSLY!

After their long winded rants, all I ask is, Why are you still together? Are you ever happy? Then it dawned on me, some people are in relationships for convenience & stability. I hear people say, “I’m only there because I don’t have no other place to go. Once I save enough money, I’m out! I’m only there because I don’t want to be alone. I’m only there for the money. The sex is wack, they’re kind of annoying but I deal with it. On the flip side, the sex is AMAZING & i’ll tolerate everything else just GIVE IT TO ME!

On that note, I’m going to end this here because that alone is a whole other topic. I wanna here your thoughts, are you the friend that complains about your relationship over and over again or are you the friend that has to hear it constantly? Most importantly, why did you stay so long & if you’re still with the person how healthy can this be?

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The Quest Chronicles: Are You Ok?

As an entertainer it is my job to entertain you but as a human being, it is my job to love you. I enjoy putting a smile on your face but how’s your heart? If baffles me the way people treat others as if they don’t know the feeling of being sad, upset or experienced losing a loved one. Take yourself back to a moment when you wanted to cry, scream & wish you had a shoulder to cry on. What we experience, 9 out of 10 someone has or is at this very moment.

Life can get over whelming at times & can get to the best of us. That statement, “check on your strong friends” is REAL! We go through just as much or even more than you can imagine. Just because we chose not to show it to the world, doesn’t mean we’re ok all the time.

Lately, I’ve contacted more people who been GOING THROUGH & it would be the individuals people usually turn to, uplift them & help them out.

Look, I know we all go through things & don’t always have time to check on EVERYONE & genuinely care to know they’re ok but we can do a little more. Be POLITE, KIND & RESPECTFUL. Give more compliments, smiles & hugs. In that moment, you could have saved someone’s life. I love you all!

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TQUEST: The Quest Chronicles: Hungry, My Love? @TQuestGLM

Dinner time, in the kitchen rocking nothing but an apron that reads “How Do I Taste?” while wearing high heels waiting for him to come home. “Baby, dinner is served. Care for some wine? It’s just the way you like it, sweet like me.” Now doesn’t that sound delectable?!

Many may say, I would love for my lady to do that for me. Why can’t she? Why wouldn’t she want to? What woman wouldn’t want to cater to her man? Is she over worked or unhappy? Sounds like some readjusting needs to be made. I’m the type of women who is down to do anything that makes her man happy. If he’s happy, I’m happy & vice versa.

We can get in the kitchen and chef up something together. Come up behind me, body pressed on my body, puts his hands on my hands as I stir. “Here baby, come taste my sauce.” Now that can be taken many ways and I’m here for all of it! You can even have a little fun with it. You know how people are always arguing who is the better cook, you can’t make it like my momma, blah blah blah. Well, have a cook off, and winner gets a kinky surprise or something relaxing like a massage with an happy ending of course. Always have to keep the relationship fun and spicy.

Now if one doesn’t know how to cook, it’s ok. Try taking a cooking course together. It’ll be a fun date night & something different. You can even be a little clever with take out. Its not about KNOWING how to cook all the time because at the end of the day, everyone just wants to be fed a delicious meal. Homemade is just a bonus that can be remixed at times.

At the end of the day, it’s about making sure each other is good, fed, satisfy and happy. A little effect can go a long way. So, with that being said, Bon Appetit! You know what to do next, leave some comments. Tell me some of your fun Kitchen stories between you and your love or even a story where you attempted to do something special and it went wrong. Mistakes happens and its OK to laugh at it later. Just hoping no house was burned down because this can get awkward! lol

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TQUEST: The Quest Chronicles: Foreplay, you ready? @TQuestGLM

Gotta love some erotic stimulation before getting it poppin! From the sexually look I give you while undressing you with my eyes to props like ice, cough drops and whip cream. Pre-gaming, or should I say Foreplay is just as important as the act of sex itself. Foreplay often doesn’t get enough credit. This neglected step in your sexual escapades can be the key to an even more explosive main course.

It’s smart to stretch before you dance, practice before a good game & start your morning right with a balanced breakfast. The ending is sweeter with a proper beginning.

It’s evident that sex is important to many people. Some can’t live without it. Sad but reality. In other cases, sex is non exiting or so generic that partners are just doing it yet not enjoying it anymore. What happened to the spark? Maybe it’s time to switch it up, go back to the basic, better yet, let’s have a better start. Here’s some Foreplay tips to help spice it up a little or just some tips you may want to try because it sounds interesting.

*In order for this to be done properly, you have to be INTO the person you with. Don’t worry about time, just get lost in the moment & lost into your partner. Make it about them & watch what happens.
*PDA: Sounds cheesy but it’s a turn on. Not just kissing but a grip/slap on the booty, or a over pants rub of his penis to the simple whisper ” You look good in that dress, I can wait to devour you later!”
*Massages & Oils are cliche but spice it up by using edible oils. Nothing like massaging and sucking the oil off her breast or his penis & the most important massage, the BOOTY rub… Gets me every time!
*Simple communication can go along way, even have face to face phone sex. Don’t be shy, speak up.

I can give tips forever but I will not. The importance of this post is to re fall about in love with the one you’re with. Keep the sex life alive. Have some fun, be spontaneous & most important cater to your partner. This goes to both men & woman. If you both make each a priority, you can’t go wrong. Take your time, don’t be in a rush to get a nut. Foreplay is just as stimulating if done right.

Now, don’t be shy… I want you to share some of your foreplay tips. We’re all adults. You may even help someone else so get the writing.

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T QUEST: The Quest Chronicles: I’m Your GirlFRIEND!!! @TQuestGLM

I honestly feel I spoil my friends too much. It’s too the point my guy friends as well as my female friends be making it feel like we’re in a relationship because of the way I treat them. It was comical at first but once they got too comfortable it became too much, that’s where I have to draw the line.

I remember years ago one of my guy friends was upset because Dunkin Donuts stop selling Hot White Chocolate & he use to get one every morning before work. Being the kind female friend that I am, I invited him over & made him some hot white chocolate from scratch. Aawww, how sweet! Yea, that’s what I though until he expected me to make it for him all the time. Uummm,I was being nice as your FRIEND, you are not my man so you don’t get all these special treatments.

Sometimes when it comes to my female friends, if they are down & out, I do my best to cheer them up, I’ll even take them out just to put a smile on their face. What are friends for, right? Well, some of them got too comfortable with this special treatment that they would call me often and asking what we doing, where we going or will see me out via social media clips and ask how come I didn’t invite them. Look, I do nice things for you because I’m your friend but you can’t keep expecting all of this. I don’t need to check in. I don’t have to invite you to everything I do. I have my own life to live. I am not your man. Go find one LOL

I always tell people, a friendship is very similar to a relationship without the intimacy depending on how kinky your friendship is. There’s nothing wrong with doing something special for your friends. Friends are the relatives you get to choose for your own family. Also, there’s nothing wrong with embracing a friend who enjoys doing nice things for you but don’t forget they’re just your friend! Not your boyfriend, not your girl friend, just your FRIEND! People get some comfortable that they forget the title the other person actually has. It’s not their job to do certain things, don’t make the friendship uncomfortable trying to force them to fill that void you secretly wish you had someone special to fill.

I know a lot of you can relate to this topics so don’t be shy. Leave a comment explaining a scenario where your friend was getting to use special treatments given by you or expecting so much from you as if you were their companion and not just their friend. I’m secreting hoping to hear some funny stories so don’t be shy!

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