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The Quest Chronicles: Time’s Ticking

Tell me if this sounds familiar, “Omg my birthday is coming up, I’m getting so old! What have I accomplished? Am I on my career path? I’m such a slacker! I should be married with children by now! Oh no, here comes a pile of unnecessary stress & tears!”

The other day one of my friends hit me up and told me she’s about to turn 35 & practically pushing 40 which is close to 50! Wait, did she just add 15 years onto her life that quick? I had a puzzled look on my face trying to figure out why she’s in tears. Snap out of it!

We live in a society with unorthodox traditions that we semi try to follow but when it brings you to tears; something has to give. I told her to relax, you’re young, married, with children & on the right career path… what am I missing? She was too busy crying about getting older that she didn’t even realize that life wasn’t that bad.

We have to break society’s psychological theories & appreciate life! I remember meeting an elderly lady & she laughed about me staying young and beauty. Talking about, “you don’t want to be my age!” Uummmm, yes I do! It’s not realistic to stay young but the whole purpose is to grow older because if you don’t, you’re pretty much dead. Once again, do you hear yourself? Yes, as we get older we start to feel like we’re breaking down, bones start to hurt, not as flexible, heartburn and the whole nine yards BUT at the same time, getting older is awesome too! Stop focusing on the END and just enjoy the journey. You’re blocking more happy moments in your life when you do this.

Time is forever ticking but remember we can’t get it back so ENJOY! If you’re unhappy with your situation redo your mental vision board & make changes. Don’t waste time complaining when you can be using this time to get life back on the track you desire for it. Woosah, take a chill pill, get to work  & take advantage of this amazing journey called LIFE!

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The Quest Chronicles: How RUDE!!!

For anyone who knows me, it’s very clear that I’m always here for others. If I can help, give advice; i’m just a message or phone call away. I’m the first to tell people especially the seasoned entrepreneurs that it’s our job to help the ones coming up after us. Now I can see why many of them start to stray away. Am I going to try to help when I can… Absolutely but I have no choice but to switch up how I handle people going forward.

Lately I been putting in more work for my business & brand because I’m my number one promoter. I get contacted on the regular with great feedback and potential clients. My hard work is paying off. In the midst of it, I’m still doing therapy sessions for those in needs, counseling, & helping because that’s the type of person I am.

Then there comes a time where i’m so over humans and have to take a moment to breathe. For example: On facebook people may send you a friend request. I’m the type to confirm, then go straight to messenger and give you a proper greeting on being my new friend. Is this always reciprocated; absolutely not. Sad to say it but when it comes to artists in particular, they are the WORST! They would hit you with a thumbs up, ask for your email then send hundreds of links. Who told them that’s how you properly communicate with someone? Not to single handedly point them out but some djs, promoters, and personalities are guilty as well. Flooding your messenger which mixes, pericope links, flyers & dozen of pages to LIKE without even acknowledgment  you with a simple hello.

When did we become so rude? Whatever happened to manners? Professionalism? Communication is STILL an issue? Are we so busy that in one minds its ok to drop links and keep it moving? As a person who’s trying to get their business off the ground or trying to put their talent out there, you have to remember this is a business & it has to be handled accordingly. If you want real positive results in what you’re doing, pay attention to how you’re doing it. You’re the reason why your career is at a standstill. Bring it back to the basic, show some respect & get it together!

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The Quest Chronicles: Think About It

Have you ever heard someone say, this year was rough & can’t wait for the new one to start? How about 9 to 5ers, constantly counting down to Friday so they can escape for the weekend? When are we finally going to wake up & face REALITY!

Every year it’s the same sun & dance with the way people act around new years & I’m here to shine some light on reality. Every year of your life hasn’t been the worst. You’re just experiencing life! We all go through up & downs throughout the year which is expected because everything is not going to be perfect. Did you notice many say the same thing every December? The year may have not went as planned but don’t discredit the good times. It’s not fair especially not to self or whomever may have been involved.

Just like people who mourn Mondays & always counting down to Friday to get here. Are YOU ready to face reality as well? Many people are not fond of their jobs but use that as motivation to push harder for your dream career in your off time. Did you notice that every week you wait for Friday to come, you missed out on the awesomeness that could have happened Monday through Thursday? You can’t turn back the hands of time do stop rushing 4 days to get to 3. Most of the time its filled running errands & rebuilding your strength for the next Monday. Doesnt seem that thrilling to me.

Look, I’m only here to help you look at life in a new perspective. If things are not working out, change the narrative. Life isn’t as bad as you think if you try to focus your engery on the more positive parts, appreciate the good & take advantage of the time we have here on this Earth. Stop waiting for Friday & New Year to get here. Enjoy, appreciate & take advantage of TODAY!!!

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The Quest Chronicles: LOL, Smiley Face!

Have you ever met someone who caught your attention by their sense of humor? Sometimes made you raise an eyebrow and be like, “did he/she really just say that?”  Laughed so hard, you spit out what you were drinking because you were caught off guard by something funny they said or did? A moment in time you wish lasted longer.  Right then is when you become a little curious to know who this person is & not always in a relationship way, just in general. They say laughter heals the heart & this is a fact!

I remember people use to question certain guys that I would talk to because in their mind, we were not compatible. Their opinions didn’t matter to me because I wasn’t dating THEM! Yes, outside of the music business, we were opposites in many ways but what made the guys like me more than the obvious reasons was my sense of humor.

I would say some of the most off the wall things, make silly expressions & would just have them laughing. Of course, they would shake their heads and start to say things like, “what’s wrong with you?”, “You’re something else”, “You’re mad goofy!” If you read between the lines, what they were really saying was, “You’re different but I like it”, You are someone special”, & “Thank you for making me laugh.”

Life can be a little challenging at times. Some of us are forced to keep our guards up and not show weakness. When it comes to our black men, they go through more than the average so when they talk to me, I bring peace, laughs & smiles. In this moment, they feel calm, walls are down & they can just BE.

Life is busy, life is complicated but take time to smile. You owe it to yourself. Go to a comedy show, watch one on your electronic devices, do whatever  makes you smile because you deserve it. Now, I can definitely make this happen because I’m so freaking funny but I suggest you have a back up plan just in case!

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The Quest Chronicles: Organic

Recently, I’ve written a song about two people meeting & falling in love Organically. During this lyrical journey I take you back to old school love. Taking you back when enjoying each other’s company was more than enough. Going out on PG dates like skating or grabbing a slice of pizza & enjoying the vibe. Laughing hearty laughs, getting to know one another & just connecting organically. No pressure of social media, not worried about the opinions of others & only focusing on each other!

I went LIVE on Facebook to get some feedback on the track. Personally I feel the main reason why people were excited about it was because of what I was rapping & singing about. Yes my delivery, flow and beat was dope but it was deeper than that. I allowed people to reminisce about the good times when it came to dating. When you would meet someone, have a normal conversation and if you clicked organically, you took it from there.

Unlike in today’s society, many people are too focus on not just impressing the other individual but impressing their friends & social media. Desiring to go on expensive dates to impress the other party not knowing in certain cases, all of that is not even necessary. Many don’t take the time out to get to know one another anymore. Everything is fast pace and people wonder while many relationship don’t last anymore.

What happened to dating? What happened to courting? What happened to love? I’m trying to bring that back. Not only in my songs, blogs & radio shows but in real life. We all deserve love, a chance, something new & refreshing but it takes times, patience and the right one to make it happen. Don’t overthink it, be true to self and allow life to run it’s course organically. You’ll me surprise to what may happen.

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The Quest Chronicles: 2 Fli

Who runs the world… WOMEN! Keeping things in tacked & handling business like a boss, you are 2 Fli! From the board room to the bedroom. From pinstripes to lingerie. You got it girl, you got it!

Over the years, there has been a negative stereotype when it comes to women working together, bonding, supporting and up lifting one another. To be honest, it’s more in the black community.

We were brainwashed and trained to look at one another as competition & it’s time to break that. Me personally, I don’t look at another female as competition, if she’s about her business. beautiful & got it going on, I want to root for her like a sister.

That’s why I am honored to be apart of 2Fli which is the all female division of The World Wide Fleet Djs & what we’ve done is open the platform for new members to join because we want to be bigger and move stronger as a female unit. We have taken the time to write articles in our magazine, highlight entrepreneurs, playing only female music artists ( major/indie) on our radio station & continuing to build with one another. The way its suppose to be. Going back to breaking the stereotype of women especially black women not knowing how to come together & be GREAT together.

It’s very evident that nowadays woman are shinning more & we have to keep this going! We’re seeing black females receive more leading roles, let’s keep that going & help get those ratings up. Not only because we have to support the black community but because their movies/shows/series are actually pretty dope! As a female emcee, I see more coming out main stream which is great! Do I agree with the majority of the content that they put up, no but still happy when I look at the bigger picture.

This is for all the woman all around, grab your wine glasses, let’s chill, build, travel & know that we are unstoppable and a bigger force when we come together! I love each and everyone of you. As for the men, protect the queen around you. We may be strong but nothing like having men around to remind us were doing good, to take a few loads off our shoulder and vice verse for us ladies. We all have to be here for one another. We may have One life, but we live everything so let’s make the best of it!

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The Quest Chronicles: Raw Honey

Red light special, black lingerie, jazz music, a bottle of wine & a camera! Raw Honey, keeping it real, raw & sweet. QUESTion is, can you handle it?
This week my new radio show The Raw Honey Show launched & it was PHENOMENAL!  Special shout out to my Co-Host @BazaarKatWalk for doing it with me.  The high number of views & comments were shocking but in a great way! Our hour show ended up being 2.5hrs long.
There was no way we could stop the show in the middle of the audience engaging with us so much! Our show was raw & sweet just like the title. What made people engage in it more was the topics that we spoke about that normally would make some people uncomfortable.
The listeners felt they were in a safe zone with us that they commented personal stories & asked questions they would normally keep to themselves. That warmed my heart because it reminds me of why I do what I do. I want people to take something positive from everything that I do especially when it comes to my blogs & radio shows. I want to open your heart, trigger something inside you that I can possibly help heal & that’s what @bazaarkatwalk & I did.
After the show the messages came flooding in of listening thanking us for our show. It made them look at their life, relationships  & more from a different perspective. Viewers became more confident to start communicating with loved ones they have rocky relationships with. We truly made an impact on the people & this is only the beginning.
We’re here to listen, understand & help so please continue to watch, listen & take in. To keep up with our show all you have to do is follow us on Instagram @Bazaarkatwalk & @TQuestGLM for the updates.
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The Quest Chronicles: Be Mindful

Not trying to be a Debbie downer but statistics shows that the suicide rate is at an all time high around the holidays. While some are excited, others are depressed feeling alone, & overworked. By all means I’m not trying to take away anyone’s joy, I’m just asking if people can be a little more kinder and sensitive to others during this time.

Thanksgiving is about giving thanks but I sometimes wonder if people are actually thankful for what they have. I hear more people complaining about what they don’t have instead of appreciating what they do. Someone like me looks at things from a different more positive perspective. Be mindful of the negative energy you put out in the atmosphere. It’s YOU that’s bringing life to what you say. Because of life experiences, I realize people don’t appreciate the small things until it’s no longer in their possession. Don’t wait unto a rude awakening to understand how blessed you are in this very moment.

Around this time, not only are people dealing with the passing of relatives/friends but have  the constant reminder that they’re not no longer here. Bitter/sweet moments that we all process differently so i’m asking you all to be mindful of this. Show more love & give more hugs. Short, sweet & straight to the point. Happy Holiday!

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The Quest Chronicles: Cuddle Season

It’s cuddle season! Get ready for all your ex stalkers & admirers to slide back in your DM after thoting all summer talking about “what’s up big head?”

The weather is changing, the leaves are  turning colors & falling. I should be focus on the beauty of natural & not your foolery so keep that same energy you had during hot girl-city boy summer.

How does that work exactly? Do you find someone you’re interested in, shoot your shot, wait patiently then go :do you” for summer if they take too long?

I already see the memes for Big Boy/Big Girl Season because its definitely getting cold out there but at the same time, holiday season is approaching as well. In other cases, people like to break up around this time to avoid meeting families & buying gifts. What has this world come to?

Are relationships just a part of life or a game to people? Do feelings matter? What happened to commitments? Are people seriously strategizing relationships based off seasons, hormones & money spent?

  • So while you’re cuddled up with your new victim, as the big spoon or little spoon answer me this… Why continue to play the game? I want to hear from you all so don’t be shy to leave a comment below.

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The Quest Chronicles: Trust Issues

The last couple of weeks have been interesting to me. I had my T-Quest Tuesday Competition
before I went to Jamaica for my birthday gig & it was incredible! I just so happened to run into
an old friend from high school who told me she was running for Alderman in our city! In my
excitement over hearing this, I gave her my mic to speak to the people about the importance of
voting.
I also interviewed her on my radio show & after hearing what she had to say, I decided to go out
there & help her with the campaign. She opened my eyes to look at politics in a new perspective
but my biggest concern before, during helping (knocking on doors, making calls) & after is
TRUST.
Many great candidates didn’t win because of popularity & the fact that the people in their area
didn’t go out to vote. Why? Is it because they no longer trust politicians?. They feel they’re not
really here for the people, especially not in a positive way. So great candidates like my friend
Leslie Navarrete as well as countless others barely had a chance.
Politics reminds me of relationships. When you meet a potential candidate in the race for your
heart, they speak their spiel to capture it & then end up not delivering. Leaving you with trust
issues for the next one. It's a toxic pattern that we wish we could avoid. So when the right one
comes around with good intentions, we tend to have a wall up & most won’t get a chance to
break it down.
Where do we go from here? How do we change this? Politics as well as the dating scene. I
guess, it’s just best to take it slow, do your research & take chances. You can’t assume
everyone is bad or you’ll miss out on an opportunity of being with someone great or having
someone great in the right position 😀

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