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The Quest Chronicles: Whitney’s Escapes Retreat


Recently I’ve had the honor of hosting Whitney’s Escapes Annual Women’s Retreat 2020. Of course the retreat is usually out of the country but due to co-vid, we had to have it in the states. As numbers rose, the concern of the woman was heavy on our hearts so to be safe we decided to do it virtually on zoom. As the music played in the beginning and watching the women join, I got excited! Watching the side chat of all the women putting their business information put a smile on my face like a proud mother.

All women were welcomed to attend but to see that 95% of them were business owners truly made my day! Every speaker, vendor and guest giving their testimonials was phenomenal. Everyone was blessed, speakers were very knowledgeable, vendors made sales, all the guests were happy and even more motivated by the end. We started as strangers but ended up being a sisterhood. This is what it’s all about; women uniting.

When it comes to women in our culture, there’s the stereotype that we can’t come together, we can’t build & always hating one another. This event was a reminder that this stereotype doesn’t apply to all of us. What we experienced was incredible. All the women were smiling, laughing & had a great time for over four hours straight. Shout out to Whitney’s Escapes for putting together another epic event.

The in person ones are super dope but to have a great experience virtually as well is something else. Now the women are even more excited for the next in person event put together by Whitney’s Escapes LLC. To book your next Escape, please visit www.WhitneysEscapes.com, email Travel@WhitneysEscapes.com & follow @WhitneysEscapes

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The Quest Chronicles: Dope Artists

As a tastemaker in the music and entertainment industry I come across a lot of people; artists in particular. When it comes to interviewing them and critiquing their music, I never know what is going to happen. They come to me to get my honest opinion on their music so I give them exactly that. I must say that I’ve been quite impressed with the artists I’ve come in contact with lately. Their music has been great!

I can hear the passion in their songs which puts a smile on my face. You can tell many of them have natural talent and have taken time to perfect their songs. This is something recently that has been lacking in the hip hop as well as the r&b community. What has really caught my attention more is the way they present and carry themselves during our interviews. They either have an interesting backstory that is intriguing and or have the right team who’s put them through artists development so they know how to talk to industry cats properly.

Either way whatever is happening, I pray it continues because this is what I have been desiring and loving. Not only as a radio personality, a journalist, a fellow artist myself but as well as a consumer, I’m here for it all. Let’s keep the music alive, produce great content, stay true to self and professional at all times. This is Ms Gotta Love Me T-Quest & you’ve just been Questified! Show love by commenting, sharing & following me on social media @TQuestGLM

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The Quest Chronicles: Lyrical Energy

There’s a lot of things in life that we may disagree on but when it comes to music I’m pretty sure we agree that it has a major effect on us. I’m not talking about listening to songs speaking about shooting and killing & then we go out and reenact the lyrics in real life but more on the lines of music affecting our energy.

When listening to certain songs we tend to connect to the lyrics because many of us may have gone through or gone through what the artist is speaking about. So when we turn on certain songs, we do it because that’s what we’re feeling at that time. If someone is going through a break up or found new love, I’m sure their music selections in those particular moments are different. When you want to wine down for the day or turn up for the night, you tend to play a certain type of playlist.

Recently, it hasn’t been the music that I’ve been connecting to; it’s more of certain lyric phrases that’s been descriptions of how I’ve been feeling. For example, Kendrick Lamar ” Please don’t kill my vibe” & Lil Duval ” Living my best life, I ain’t going back & forth with you people!” These two lines in particular have been ringing in my head every time I’m in an intense conversation with certain people. Pretty much saying, “look, I don’t have time for your negative energy. I’m good over here to go elsewhere with all of that!” Now my QUESTion for you is, what songs and or lyrics have  you been connecting to lately? Please don’t be shy and comment below.

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The Quest Chronicles: Feel The Rhythm

When you hear music, you can’t help but to gravitate to it whether you start singing the words, dancing to the beat and just get lost in the moment. Me personally, I  just be dancing, moving my body, bopping to a beat that doesn’t exist to the world. People be having the puzzle look on trying to figure out what I’m listening to and in reality, I’m listening to absolutely nothing. You don’t see any headphones, Bluetooth or music playing because there is none. I just dance to my own beat. I be on a natural high, full of life that my body just be moving.

The main reason why I stay dancing is because I’m a happy person. I control my energy, I control the space I desire to be in and I have full control over ME! Many of us allow people to tank our vibe. Throughout the day someone is always mad at somebody about something. Maybe something they’ve done, said or whatever. Don’t get me wrong, this happens to me too but after I have my small moment of being annoyed; I’ll handle the situation and keep it moving.

Dwelling on something that’s not that relevant is a waste of time. time waits for no man and I will not allow someone to waste my time. That’s when I remember what’s important, regroup and go about my day. A lot of the things I say is easier said than done but it still has to be said. There’s nothing wrong with reminders. What I write is like blog affirmations so pay attention, apply and start dancing to your own beat. trust me, you’ll enjoy it!

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The Quest Chronicles: What Just Happened?

I remember people used to call me bipolar because I would switch up on them real quick. One moment I could be smiling and then the next moment I could be upset. Now, I do not condone anyone making fun of anyone with a special condition but this is just what they would call me. I must admit I would switch up on people but with good reason.

Growing up alone, I stay having more thoughts in my head than the average. I could experience a situation, fix the problem in my head then react differently very quickly.There’s a lot going on in this world to dwell on certain things too long. If I’m having a conversation with someone and they make me upset, I take a moment to process as many should. The next time they speak to me they may think i’ll still be upset then surprisingly realize that I was completely fine.

Many situations don’t deserve too much energy and that’s a problem for a lot of people. Now, there are times where you want to be petty because people are pissing you off and I’ve had moments like that but then turn into an adult and dead the situation. Sometimes my actions may freak people out which is quite comical to me. I’m just realistic to reality.

We spend so much time dwelling on nonsense and I refuse to do that. Have your moment, learn your lesson and move on. Easier said than done as usual but still have to be said. Life is turn, time is precious, use it wisely.This is Ms Gotta Love Me T-Quest & you’ve just been Questified! Show love by commenting, sharing & following me on social media @TQuestGLM

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The Quest Chronicles: The Secure Man

Topic: The Secure Man

Dating should be fun but it’s hard for many people. Trying to date while in the entertainment industry is even harder. Being a socialite, public figure or someone who is very easy on the eye attracts attention too.

With that being said, when trying to date someone who is popular you have to be aware that it comes with many factors that most can’t handle. I myself as a popular public figure can’t be with an insecure man. Even when it comes to talking to guys on a regular level; there’s stipulations that comes with that as well.

When you’re not officially in a relationship or dating exclusively, you have to know that there may be others in the picture. That’s not a bad thing nor should you make someone feel as if their doing something wrong for giving more than one person some attention.

Not saying I encourage people to sleep with everyone their talking to. All I’m saying is, in order to find who’s right for you; you have to give the options a chance. If i’m conversing with a guy, he must know that he may not be the only guy i’m talking to but may have my attention the most.

Once I feel that the situation is something I want to explore and make exclusive then in that moment is when the others will slowly get cut off. I try my best to be open & honest with everyone I’m talking to or whatever so there’s no gray area. I am a woman who knows what she wants, needs and desire.

If you ask me a question, be prepared for a real answer. If you’re tying to date me or any other woman like myself, if you’re not secure enough to handle what comes along with the journey then save yourself the embarrassment and make room for the man who’s suppose to be there.

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The Quest Chronicles: Date With Caution

Everyone wants to be loved, in love, in strong like or whatever but make sure that you date with caution especially in these times. So much is going on and society has changed. Not only economically but when it comes to dating & relationships as well.

During these trying times, it’s been hard on many of us especially people in relationships or desiring to be in one. I Heard during this pandemic, it has been testing relationships. Many people haven’t spent this much time with one another and are starting to see sides of their partners that they’ve never seen before. I guess it goes back to knowing who you’re with. Now if we flip it to single people, this is another story.

Many of them are envious of people in relationships because they wish they had a permanent quarantine bae to snuggle with, have sex with everyday & live their best lives but that’s not the case. Now that everyone is home, this is giving people a chance to converse more and date online. This can be a great thing but it’s all about what you do with it. Once people start to show an interest in another, they want to meet up asap which is cool and I can understand that. At the same time, I encourage them to slow down.

This is the perfect time to really get to know that person you may be interested in. During these quarantine times, every personality inside is being tested. Here’s your chance to see how others react to certain situations such as deaths, sicknesses, stress because of bills, being stuck in the house, dealing with family, businesses and more. Take notes & see if those reactions will get your approval of the person you want to be with.

Also, let’s not be upset that we can’t go on too many dates but take advantage of this time to get to know who we may be with and who may be potential bae. If you do decide to  hang out together, proceed with caution.  Places may be slowing opening up, doesn’t mean Corona is gone. Have fun to a certain degree but be careful. 

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The Quest Chronicles: Who Am I?

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As a radio personality & Love Guru, I’m constantly in the midst of a conversation about everyone’s favorite subject: Relationships. Many of my platforms consists of single people who are looking and desiring love. Many of them have their do’s and don’t as well as their deal breakers. The interesting part is, so many of them THINK they know what they want but in all honesty, they don’t. One of the main reason’s why is because they don’t know who they are.

Many are in relationships but are not happy. Some may find themselves in situation-ships and not sure how to take it to the next level. There are individuals who are in the dating phase & not sure what to do & what to look for. Everyone desires love but don’t know who to retain it but have to realize it starts with self. Before you on a love search, try soul searching first. How can someone truly get to know you if you don’t even know yourself?

Ask yourself these questions. What do you really want & desire? What truly makes you happy? Are you whole within? Are you still healing from past hurt and break ups? What are a few things you want to avoid when stepping into something new?  What can truly put a smile on your face? Do you know how to self love, self heal and self fulfill or is someone else always needed?

These are just a few questions to get you started. Everyone deserves love but love yourself first. Continue to heal and get to know YOU. Becoming a better you would be more healthy in a new relationship trying to blossom. Who am I?

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The T-Quest Show: Serena Deena Interview

International Superstar is what comes to mind when I think of Serena Deena. She is a star that is shining! Having the pleasure of interviewing her, hearing how professional she is, down to earth, loving caring, hard working and hearing her awesome music was so epic. Her style of music is unique and I could see her on the charts soon.

Serena Deena

As I write this article I’m smiling because I’m happy I was introduced to Serena Deena. As soon as she called into my radio show, I knew in the first moment that we were going to have a great conversation. Not sure who to give the credit to, whether it was her upbringing or artist development but her professionalism and the way she spoke impressed me. She conducted herself very well in the interview. As we began to have more of a conversation, I was intrigued by many experiences she mentioned. Serena is what I call an all around entertainer.

Yes, she does music but she is also a dancer & a writer. She’s down to earth, she lives life and what she feels is what she displays in her music. During the interview we played and we spoke upon her two singles entitled Dirty & Palm. As the music was playing, I was getting contacted by the listener eager to learn where they can hear more of her music. That’s exactly the type of responses you want to get from new potential fans. Serena was even open to collaborating with me on a song which shows she’s down to create magic with others.

Not only is be easy on the eye but she has a beautiful spirit as well. Please make sure you support by streaming her music & keeping up with her on your social media as well as her website which is displayed. She’s a star that’s definitely shining!

 

 

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The Quest Chronicles: Even The Strong Cry

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You are so brave. You are so strong. “Thank you” should be the response, correct? Is this a compliment? Can it be received well all the time because last I checked, some of my  friends are on the verge of breaking. Many of us have been taught to be strong, how to survive, how to maneuver through tough times.

During deaths, we have to be strong for others. As parents we have to be strong for the kids. Through breakups & divorces, we have to be strong for the family or whomever. What about us? Yes, we know how to move on but don’t you think we hurt too? I speak to many strong individuals personally and when we have serious talks, many of them can’t help but to break down because they’re tired and hurting. Exhausted, confused, lost and unhappy but can’t show it.

It beaks my heart to see this but to be honest, it’s not uncommon. We wish we didn’t have to always hide it. It would be nice to have people who can actually help fix many of the problems. We wish we can have a moment of clarity to figure out some things out but it doesn’t always happen like that. Yes, the weak is going through but the strong is going through their battles as well.

Remember that phrase “Check on your strong friends”? It’s real. Many may say they’re okay but deep down inside they’re not. They’re human, going through this experience we call life and hurt just like everyone else. If they don’t allow you IN, just respectfully remind them that you are here for them, give them a random hug, find a way to put a smile on their face & just show up. It’ll be appreciated.

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