The Quest Chronicles: Compatible Sex Drive

What’s your sex number? Are you down with “BDSM” bondage, discipline, dominance and submission? Is your sex drive the same as your partner? Do you advance to meet theirs needs or find a common medium?

For some odd reason, having sex talk makes people uncomfortable. I feel if we’re going to be intimate together the line of communication should already be open. How OPEN are you with your mate? If you were unsatisfied, would you let it be known? Would you come out of your comfort zone to please them? How open are you to trying and experiencing new things?

Sex shouldn’t be the main connection in a relationship but must admit it does play a major part just like finances. It is considered a deal breaker because it’s such a priority to many.

Depending on our sexual experiences, we all have a different love for it and drive. When meeting a mate who’s either more experienced than you or less… what do you do?

I asked a guy once before was he into choking and he said “that’s just sick and crazy” He couldn’t date a girl who was into that because God knows what else she’s into. His response was very interesting because you have other guys who love it, just like some like to eat the booty like groceries.

When having sex for the first time with your boo, are you curious, turned off, weirded out or turned on if they want you to try or experience new tricks, adding toys  & positions such as anal, brute, pretzel or helicopter?

If not comfortable, will you speak up? If your partner is not a big freak like you, will you eventually break up?

I know this week’s blog is mainly questions but I want you to really think about what I’m writing about. I know my regular readers are waiting for my personal opinion, stories, what I like or into but you’ll have to read that in my book releasing this year! Yes I know I’m teasing but it’ll be worth this!

One last QUESTion, if you’re not satisfied sexually, have you or did you ever think about cheating? Time to chime in below & don’t hold back. We’re all adults.

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  1. I never thoughg cheating on my mate because she wasnt as sexual as I am. But it was important for me to have that converstation with her tho. Communication is key!.

  2. Definitely thought provoking. I’m always loved the sensual kind of things. I’ve always felt like toys etc are just in the way. Also, personally, I feel like it’s more fun to make the moment last. They’re many things I’m turned off by the thought of sexually.
    I just want to concentrate on taking time and loving right. But I guess that’s where love language comes in.

  3. Girl you got another hit. I cannot wait to read your book. Your questions definitely make me think. If they don’t make a person think they must be stone cold & just not care. I love it…….keep it up!!!

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