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You ever had a date scheduled? Cleared the calendar, got all dressed up, prepared something special and then they don’t even call to say they’re going to be late?!  How about the ones who say they’re going to be late & eventually don’t even bother showing up? Their response… “my bad” as if it didn’t required anything more. Yes, things come up but did you consider my feelings & my time?

People are too nonchalant about the wrong things as if it’s no big deal. How about the ones who take hours to plan something special, get a babysitter, take time off of work or reschedule plans to make sure they spend time with YOU & you pull some crazy stunt like this? Now, if you flip, they look at you as if you’re tripping. I don’t understand people and this happens quite often.

Me being an entrepreneur, let’s take it from a business aspect. If we are suppose to get up for a meeting or a session, do you think it’s okay to be late without notifying the other person? Someone else could have had your spot. You’re wasting my time and money that could have been made. Pulling a “no call no show is unprofessional as well. This ain’t cute nor funny, it’s pretty much disrespectful. The sad part is, when it’s on the other foot, people start to feel some type of way when it’s happening to them! Now if you were an employee and you got fired, I bet in that moment you’re going to feel some type of way because of the consequences.

I’m not even going to get started on the ones you believe in “CP” Time which means CRAZY PEOPLE time to me. Some of my friends and followers had to learn the hard way when coming to a few of my events because I start everything ON TIME and they end up missing most of the shows being LATE! This is one of the reasons why I get booked often because people understand I respect time and they never have to wait on me.

You can’t turn back the hands of time. Life has so many factors and anything can happen but some people needs to really think about others for once. This is an issue that’s been going on for decades and probably won’t change but I will continue to lead by example & hope others jump on the bandwagon. It scares me because the people I know who is usually late for many events as well as their job honestly don’t see nothing wrong with it.

This topic can go in different directions depending on your own personal experiences so i’m going to stop here and allow you to chime in below in the comment section. Let me know of your own personal experiences of people not valuing or respecting your time. I know there’s some interesting stories so don’t hold back!

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  1. Awesome as usual. I know exactly how you feel. I was stood up on Valentine’s Day last year. Needless to say I never made another date with this person. The sad part is that we were supposed to be friends & he tried & tried to date me & when I said to myself to give it a try, this is what I got. It was halfway expected, but I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt. Luckily no love lost & no heartache, just disappointment.

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