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The Quest Chronicles: Be Mindful

Not trying to be a Debbie downer but statistics shows that the suicide rate is at an all time high around the holidays. While some are excited, others are depressed feeling alone, & overworked. By all means I’m not trying to take away anyone’s joy, I’m just asking if people can be a little more kinder and sensitive to others during this time.

Thanksgiving is about giving thanks but I sometimes wonder if people are actually thankful for what they have. I hear more people complaining about what they don’t have instead of appreciating what they do. Someone like me looks at things from a different more positive perspective. Be mindful of the negative energy you put out in the atmosphere. It’s YOU that’s bringing life to what you say. Because of life experiences, I realize people don’t appreciate the small things until it’s no longer in their possession. Don’t wait unto a rude awakening to understand how blessed you are in this very moment.

Around this time, not only are people dealing with the passing of relatives/friends but have  the constant reminder that they’re not no longer here. Bitter/sweet moments that we all process differently so i’m asking you all to be mindful of this. Show more love & give more hugs. Short, sweet & straight to the point. Happy Holiday!

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The Quest Chronicles: The Bigger Person

Many people in relationships get nervous in the middle of an argument when the other person all of a sudden becomes calm. They’ll sigh & say “You’re right” or “OK”. Some would just let you win to stop arguing whether they agree or not because fighting is draining. Does this solve the problem, no but for some people they feel it’s the only answer for the moment.

I’m not a confrontational person. I don’t fight nor argue. If I feel a situation is getting intense then I find a way to ease out of it the best way I can. That’s when I automatically become the BIGGER PERSON.

Don’t get me wrong, I am semi human so part of me would rather not be lady like nor professional & let some people HAVE IT! But, we all know the saying, “never allow people to take you out of your character” So I continue to be the bigger person and resolve the issues in a better way.

We’re already in a huge fight call LIFE so the last people I would want to fight with is my love, family, friends or co workers. If more people would fully LISTEN, COMMUNICATE properly & allow someone to have their own OPINION ,things could be a lot better! These small gestures can have such a big positive affect. Easier said than done yet it shouldn’t be hard to do.

I often question if people actually like to have confrontations? Do they like to argue & fight? Do they enjoy putting each other down?

Based off my lifestyle & how I was bought up, taking the high road is the way to go but still have to balance it. I learned that it’s ok to speak your mind even in an intense situation because it’s not healthy to always put your feelings to the side to spare the other person’s. Self love comes first. Not encouraging a brawl but have enough self assurance to let it be known how you feel about something in the best yet respectful way.

I’ll admit I don’t always want to be the bigger person but there are BIGGER things in life I would rather put my energy towards 😏

On that note, you know what to do down below!

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