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The Quest Chronicles: Family Awareness

We are family! Got all my sisters with me. You all remember the song? I’m sure you all remember the quote “Blood is thicker than water” too. Do you know the importance of the blood in your body? The body can’t function the way it’s suppose to unless the blood is flowing properly. The blood is important just like family is. Charity starts at home.

As family, we should be each other’s first love, best friend, biggest cheerleader , supporter and fan. In most cases, it’s not like that & it breaks my heart. We have to break this generational curse because it seems like it’s only getting worse.

When was the last time you called you mom, dad, sister, brother or even cousin to check on them? Not saying “how you doing” & then ask for something because that doesn’t count. When you get to the point that you have to prepare yourself before answering the call from a family member because you know what the call is going to be about ahead of time is a problem.

FOE (Family Over Everything) We have to get back to that, especially if the relationship is there or fixable depending on your situation or circumstance. I’m tired of the “Whatchu want” tone when on the phone because the only reason someone may call is because they want something. I’m tired of only taking time out to visit family because someone passed a way. All of a sudden we start to get those ” I’m so sorry for your loss” phone calls, text massages & DM’s. You were not checking for me before so why now? Did you get a wake up call or is this just a “moment” of sympathy?

Yes, in situations that brings the family together should be a hint that we have to work harder to keep the family love strong but it’s temporary. It’s the same speeches every funeral but then nothing changes. It reminds me of church services where the pastor would preach, it’s relate-able to people lives, you hear them say “I know that’s right pastor”; “I know that message was for me.” Few hours later, back to the same shenanigans.

This has to stop. Life is too short. We mush bring back the love. We must make the time for one another. We can’t be too consumed with other parts of life. I speak about it often that life can be hectic and overwhelming but sacrifices and adjusting has to be made. We have to stop trying to make change when it’s too late or talk about it but then don’t put no action behind it. It’s a lose lose when there’s room to win.

Like always, leave your comments below because I truly desire to know how you feel and if you’ve ever been in these situations.

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The Quest Chronicles: Compatible Sex Drive

What’s your sex number? Are you down with “BDSM” bondage, discipline, dominance and submission? Is your sex drive the same as your partner? Do you advance to meet theirs needs or find a common medium?

For some odd reason, having sex talk makes people uncomfortable. I feel if we’re going to be intimate together the line of communication should already be open. How OPEN are you with your mate? If you were unsatisfied, would you let it be known? Would you come out of your comfort zone to please them? How open are you to trying and experiencing new things?

Sex shouldn’t be the main connection in a relationship but must admit it does play a major part just like finances. It is considered a deal breaker because it’s such a priority to many.

Depending on our sexual experiences, we all have a different love for it and drive. When meeting a mate who’s either more experienced than you or less… what do you do?

I asked a guy once before was he into choking and he said “that’s just sick and crazy” He couldn’t date a girl who was into that because God knows what else she’s into. His response was very interesting because you have other guys who love it, just like some like to eat the booty like groceries.

When having sex for the first time with your boo, are you curious, turned off, weirded out or turned on if they want you to try or experience new tricks, adding toys  & positions such as anal, brute, pretzel or helicopter?

If not comfortable, will you speak up? If your partner is not a big freak like you, will you eventually break up?

I know this week’s blog is mainly questions but I want you to really think about what I’m writing about. I know my regular readers are waiting for my personal opinion, stories, what I like or into but you’ll have to read that in my book releasing this year! Yes I know I’m teasing but it’ll be worth this!

One last QUESTion, if you’re not satisfied sexually, have you or did you ever think about cheating? Time to chime in below & don’t hold back. We’re all adults.

This is Ms Gotta Love Me herself T-Quest & you’ve just been Questified! Show love by commenting, sharing & following me on social media at TQuestGLM

Email me topics to discuss & QUESTions you may have. To learn more about me or to hear about certain topics in dept please download my app “T-Quest” in your google play store & visit my website GottaLoveMeWorld.com

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