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The Quest Chronicles: Take A Moment

Take a moment to think about what truly makes you happy. Even if it’s something that puts an instant smile on your face. Perhaps a song that once you hear it, you want to get up a dance. How about when you finally put that fork in your mouth with hot goodness on it. Yummy! Possibly the moment you’re doing your favorite activity. A moment when your minds is not thinking about work, stress, sadness, just a moment of pure happiness.

We need more of that. Time management is everything. I know many of us is consumed with so much that we feel we don’t have time for SELF but I challenge you all to dedicate 3 to 10mins a day to yourself. Even if it’s just you turning on your favorite jams or a moment in your car without no one around just for peace. You owe it to YOU. You deserve plenty of happiness but in the meantime if your lacking, try giving it to yourself with this small task.

Many look to others to make them happy not knowing they have the capability of doing it themselves. Just like birthdays, I recently celebrated mines & treated myself to a trip to Jamaica. Why, because I deserved it & a moment or shall I say week of peace & serenity was needed. I didn’t wait on others to get me anything or do anything for me. I had to make sure I was good for myself. The saying is NOT, “we only live once”… we live everyday & we die once so make the best of it. Grab a book, run a bath, turn on some comedy & crack a smile!

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The Quest Chronicles: Family Awareness

We are family! Got all my sisters with me. You all remember the song? I’m sure you all remember the quote “Blood is thicker than water” too. Do you know the importance of the blood in your body? The body can’t function the way it’s suppose to unless the blood is flowing properly. The blood is important just like family is. Charity starts at home.

As family, we should be each other’s first love, best friend, biggest cheerleader , supporter and fan. In most cases, it’s not like that & it breaks my heart. We have to break this generational curse because it seems like it’s only getting worse.

When was the last time you called you mom, dad, sister, brother or even cousin to check on them? Not saying “how you doing” & then ask for something because that doesn’t count. When you get to the point that you have to prepare yourself before answering the call from a family member because you know what the call is going to be about ahead of time is a problem.

FOE (Family Over Everything) We have to get back to that, especially if the relationship is there or fixable depending on your situation or circumstance. I’m tired of the “Whatchu want” tone when on the phone because the only reason someone may call is because they want something. I’m tired of only taking time out to visit family because someone passed a way. All of a sudden we start to get those ” I’m so sorry for your loss” phone calls, text massages & DM’s. You were not checking for me before so why now? Did you get a wake up call or is this just a “moment” of sympathy?

Yes, in situations that brings the family together should be a hint that we have to work harder to keep the family love strong but it’s temporary. It’s the same speeches every funeral but then nothing changes. It reminds me of church services where the pastor would preach, it’s relate-able to people lives, you hear them say “I know that’s right pastor”; “I know that message was for me.” Few hours later, back to the same shenanigans.

This has to stop. Life is too short. We mush bring back the love. We must make the time for one another. We can’t be too consumed with other parts of life. I speak about it often that life can be hectic and overwhelming but sacrifices and adjusting has to be made. We have to stop trying to make change when it’s too late or talk about it but then don’t put no action behind it. It’s a lose lose when there’s room to win.

Like always, leave your comments below because I truly desire to know how you feel and if you’ve ever been in these situations.

This is Ms Gotta Love Me herself & you’ve just been Questified! Show love by commenting, sharing & following me on social media at TQuestGLM

Email me topics to discuss & QUESTions you may have. To learn more about me or to hear about certain topics in dept please download my app “T-Quest” in your google play store & visit my website GottaLoveMeWorld.com

To support the brand, Cashapp: $TQuestGLM or PayPal TQuestGLM@gmail.com

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