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TQUEST: The Quest Chronicles: Foreplay, you ready? @TQuestGLM

Gotta love some erotic stimulation before getting it poppin! From the sexually look I give you while undressing you with my eyes to props like ice, cough drops and whip cream. Pre-gaming, or should I say Foreplay is just as important as the act of sex itself. Foreplay often doesn’t get enough credit. This neglected step in your sexual escapades can be the key to an even more explosive main course.

It’s smart to stretch before you dance, practice before a good game & start your morning right with a balanced breakfast. The ending is sweeter with a proper beginning.

It’s evident that sex is important to many people. Some can’t live without it. Sad but reality. In other cases, sex is non exiting or so generic that partners are just doing it yet not enjoying it anymore. What happened to the spark? Maybe it’s time to switch it up, go back to the basic, better yet, let’s have a better start. Here’s some Foreplay tips to help spice it up a little or just some tips you may want to try because it sounds interesting.

*In order for this to be done properly, you have to be INTO the person you with. Don’t worry about time, just get lost in the moment & lost into your partner. Make it about them & watch what happens.
*PDA: Sounds cheesy but it’s a turn on. Not just kissing but a grip/slap on the booty, or a over pants rub of his penis to the simple whisper ” You look good in that dress, I can wait to devour you later!”
*Massages & Oils are cliche but spice it up by using edible oils. Nothing like massaging and sucking the oil off her breast or his penis & the most important massage, the BOOTY rub… Gets me every time!
*Simple communication can go along way, even have face to face phone sex. Don’t be shy, speak up.

I can give tips forever but I will not. The importance of this post is to re fall about in love with the one you’re with. Keep the sex life alive. Have some fun, be spontaneous & most important cater to your partner. This goes to both men & woman. If you both make each a priority, you can’t go wrong. Take your time, don’t be in a rush to get a nut. Foreplay is just as stimulating if done right.

Now, don’t be shy… I want you to share some of your foreplay tips. We’re all adults. You may even help someone else so get the writing.

This is Ms Gotta Love Me herself, it’s T-Quest Tuesday & you’ve just been Questified! Show love by commenting, sharing & following me on social media @ TQuestGLM

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The Quest Chronicles: The Bigger Person

Many people in relationships get nervous in the middle of an argument when the other person all of a sudden becomes calm. They’ll sigh & say “You’re right” or “OK”. Some would just let you win to stop arguing whether they agree or not because fighting is draining. Does this solve the problem, no but for some people they feel it’s the only answer for the moment.

I’m not a confrontational person. I don’t fight nor argue. If I feel a situation is getting intense then I find a way to ease out of it the best way I can. That’s when I automatically become the BIGGER PERSON.

Don’t get me wrong, I am semi human so part of me would rather not be lady like nor professional & let some people HAVE IT! But, we all know the saying, “never allow people to take you out of your character” So I continue to be the bigger person and resolve the issues in a better way.

We’re already in a huge fight call LIFE so the last people I would want to fight with is my love, family, friends or co workers. If more people would fully LISTEN, COMMUNICATE properly & allow someone to have their own OPINION ,things could be a lot better! These small gestures can have such a big positive affect. Easier said than done yet it shouldn’t be hard to do.

I often question if people actually like to have confrontations? Do they like to argue & fight? Do they enjoy putting each other down?

Based off my lifestyle & how I was bought up, taking the high road is the way to go but still have to balance it. I learned that it’s ok to speak your mind even in an intense situation because it’s not healthy to always put your feelings to the side to spare the other person’s. Self love comes first. Not encouraging a brawl but have enough self assurance to let it be known how you feel about something in the best yet respectful way.

I’ll admit I don’t always want to be the bigger person but there are BIGGER things in life I would rather put my energy towards 😏

On that note, you know what to do down below!

This is Ms Gotta Love Me herself T-Quest & you’ve just been Questified! Show love by commenting, sharing & following me on social media at TQuestGLM

Email me topics to discuss & QUESTions you may have. To learn more about me or to hear about certain topics in dept please download my app “T-Quest” in your google play store

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