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TQUEST: The Quest Chronicles: Foreplay, you ready? @TQuestGLM

Gotta love some erotic stimulation before getting it poppin! From the sexually look I give you while undressing you with my eyes to props like ice, cough drops and whip cream. Pre-gaming, or should I say Foreplay is just as important as the act of sex itself. Foreplay often doesn’t get enough credit. This neglected step in your sexual escapades can be the key to an even more explosive main course.

It’s smart to stretch before you dance, practice before a good game & start your morning right with a balanced breakfast. The ending is sweeter with a proper beginning.

It’s evident that sex is important to many people. Some can’t live without it. Sad but reality. In other cases, sex is non exiting or so generic that partners are just doing it yet not enjoying it anymore. What happened to the spark? Maybe it’s time to switch it up, go back to the basic, better yet, let’s have a better start. Here’s some Foreplay tips to help spice it up a little or just some tips you may want to try because it sounds interesting.

*In order for this to be done properly, you have to be INTO the person you with. Don’t worry about time, just get lost in the moment & lost into your partner. Make it about them & watch what happens.
*PDA: Sounds cheesy but it’s a turn on. Not just kissing but a grip/slap on the booty, or a over pants rub of his penis to the simple whisper ” You look good in that dress, I can wait to devour you later!”
*Massages & Oils are cliche but spice it up by using edible oils. Nothing like massaging and sucking the oil off her breast or his penis & the most important massage, the BOOTY rub… Gets me every time!
*Simple communication can go along way, even have face to face phone sex. Don’t be shy, speak up.

I can give tips forever but I will not. The importance of this post is to re fall about in love with the one you’re with. Keep the sex life alive. Have some fun, be spontaneous & most important cater to your partner. This goes to both men & woman. If you both make each a priority, you can’t go wrong. Take your time, don’t be in a rush to get a nut. Foreplay is just as stimulating if done right.

Now, don’t be shy… I want you to share some of your foreplay tips. We’re all adults. You may even help someone else so get the writing.

This is Ms Gotta Love Me herself, it’s T-Quest Tuesday & you’ve just been Questified! Show love by commenting, sharing & following me on social media @ TQuestGLM

Email me topics to discuss & QUESTions you may have. To learn more about me or to hear about certain topics in dept please download my “T-Quest” app in your google play store & visit my website GottaLoveMeWorld.com

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The Quest Chronicles: Value My Time

You ever had a date scheduled? Cleared the calendar, got all dressed up, prepared something special and then they don’t even call to say they’re going to be late?!  How about the ones who say they’re going to be late & eventually don’t even bother showing up? Their response… “my bad” as if it didn’t required anything more. Yes, things come up but did you consider my feelings & my time?

People are too nonchalant about the wrong things as if it’s no big deal. How about the ones who take hours to plan something special, get a babysitter, take time off of work or reschedule plans to make sure they spend time with YOU & you pull some crazy stunt like this? Now, if you flip, they look at you as if you’re tripping. I don’t understand people and this happens quite often.

Me being an entrepreneur, let’s take it from a business aspect. If we are suppose to get up for a meeting or a session, do you think it’s okay to be late without notifying the other person? Someone else could have had your spot. You’re wasting my time and money that could have been made. Pulling a “no call no show is unprofessional as well. This ain’t cute nor funny, it’s pretty much disrespectful. The sad part is, when it’s on the other foot, people start to feel some type of way when it’s happening to them! Now if you were an employee and you got fired, I bet in that moment you’re going to feel some type of way because of the consequences.

I’m not even going to get started on the ones you believe in “CP” Time which means CRAZY PEOPLE time to me. Some of my friends and followers had to learn the hard way when coming to a few of my events because I start everything ON TIME and they end up missing most of the shows being LATE! This is one of the reasons why I get booked often because people understand I respect time and they never have to wait on me.

You can’t turn back the hands of time. Life has so many factors and anything can happen but some people needs to really think about others for once. This is an issue that’s been going on for decades and probably won’t change but I will continue to lead by example & hope others jump on the bandwagon. It scares me because the people I know who is usually late for many events as well as their job honestly don’t see nothing wrong with it.

This topic can go in different directions depending on your own personal experiences so i’m going to stop here and allow you to chime in below in the comment section. Let me know of your own personal experiences of people not valuing or respecting your time. I know there’s some interesting stories so don’t hold back!

This is Ms Gotta Love Me herself, it’s T-Quest Tuesday & you’ve just been Questified! Show love by commenting, sharing & following me on social media at TQuestGLM

Email me topics to discuss & QUESTions you may have. To learn more about me or to hear about certain topics in dept please download my app “T-Quest” in your google play store & visit my website GottaLoveMeWorld.com

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