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The Quest Chronicles: What Do You Want?

What do you want? Chicken or Fish? Stay in or go out? Make love or rough sex? Single or Taken has even been a complicated QUESTion! Sometimes you have to look in the mirror and ask, who am I, what do I like, what turns me on, what I do want, what do I need, better yet, what do I deserve?

To a certain extent like Lauren Hill said ” It can all be so simple, but you’ll rather make it hard.” Life ain’t easy but it doesn’t has to have so many complications if we take control the proper way. So many single individuals are always searching for that one but barely know and understand self. If someone is to ask you personal questions and on average your answers are “I don’t know, I’m not sure, never even thought about it, there’s a problem. How can someone get to fully know you if you don’t even know yourself? How can you jump into a new relationship without fully closing the chapter on the last one?  How can you try to find a doctor to heal your hurt if you can’t explain the symptoms and pain?

When is comes to business, many want to be entrepreneurs but don’t even know the basics. “I want to be a boss” but do you even know how to lead? “I want to own a business” but have you even written out a blueprint or business plan? Do you have the proper funds or enough knowledge to even get it off the ground? These are questions we need to think about.

Yes, we live in a society that is very fast pace especially in the world of technology but everyone can’t keep up.  When was the last time you sat down, turn off all devices & did some self reflecting? Do you even know yourself? You say you want a relationship but are you ready for one? If you’re in a relationship, are you giving it your all & or are you putting yourself on the back burner?

As for myself, I’m tied into so much as far as business, music & personal life that I didn’t realize things weren’t progressing the way I hoped. So what did I do, I stopped everything & did a reset on life. I had a hard self reflecting and was honest enough to recognize the issues and started to work on a way to fix them. We have one life so I desired to make the best of it. So if it takes me not going out or not dating to figuring out ME, my finances, goals & life all together then so be it. I owe it to mySELF!

To wrap this up, I just want you to look at where you’re at, where you’re trying to go & sacrifice some time to rewrite a plan so you can start living the life you want, desire & need. I say all this because I care. I want to see everyone exceed.

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The Quest Chronicles: Pay Closer Attention

I give credit where credit is due. I commend the men stepping it up, communicating & learning more about the women they date. There’s only one problem I’m having, make sure that she’s actually into you as well.

Interviewer: What do you like to do? What’s your favorite food?

Me: I like to go to spas. It’s my happy place & my favorite food is pizza.

Interviewer: On a date or when dating someone, what do you like for them to do?

Me: I love a man who can make me laugh, attentive, display courtship etc. To dig deeper, I love a man to grab my hand while we’re walking, shut me up with a passionate kiss when I’m talking & open the door for me then slap my booty after I walk through LOL!

Mind you, when I’m doing these interviews for radio or bloggers, my male fans are listening & reading. They’re taking notes. Now, if I so happen to bless any of them with my time, and if they tried to some of these gestures, I’ll be flattered. If some try to do more intimate gestures I may have some unpleasant words.

Which at first may throw them off but let me explain why. I’m the type of woman who enjoy adult hang outs once in a while which means, just because we’re going out doesn’t mean we’re DATING! This is when COMMUNICATION comes into play. So many people tried to jump ship too quick & wonder why they get played in the end. I’ll enjoy the fact that you’re being a gentleman but just because you heard me say what I like doesn’t mean I’ll want YOU to do them.

When people answer these QUESTions, they’re explaining that they want the person they LIKE to do things like this.

Know the person you’re conversing with & don’t ignore signs. Try not to confuse a lovely personality with flirting. Don’t be so aggressive in the beginning but be honest about your intentions so you both are on the same page. Pay attention to what they like or don’t like but don’t jump ship because they may not want it from you.

Don’t be one of those people sitting home saying to self that you don’t understand how you did everything right, did everything they like yet still not with them. They desire those gestures but from the right ones.

At the end of the day, you can’t fault them if there’s no organic spark or chemistry. Money isn’t everything but like I always say COMMUNICATION is key! Dating is complicated at times. Deal with it! Lol

This is Ms Gotta Love Me herself T-Quest & you’ve just been Questified! Show love by commenting, sharing & following me on social media at TQuestGLM

Email me topics to discuss & QUESTions you may have. To learn more about me or to hear about certain topics in dept please download my app “T-Quest” in your google play store & visit my website GottaLoveMeWorld.com

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