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The Quest Chronicles: Friends With Benefits

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The Quest Chronicles: Friends With Benefits We all love to live life & have fun! As children, we dream of being married, having kids, a career & more. But then there comes a time in life when everything doesn’t always go as planned. This is when we readjust and re-plan. There comes a time where we accept life for what it is and just do us. Relationships are the desire but to occupy our time we may have a friend with benefits. Casually going on dates, hanging out, having fun, and lots of sex. This is great until someone catches feelings. Things start to get awkward and it messes up the dynamic.
Don’t get me wrong, there are a few friends with benefits situations that do end in a real relationship but in other cases, they may end once someone catches feelings. That wasn’t the plan in the beginning but it happens. This is why I encourage people to keep the line of communication open with your partner.

If it’s strictly friends with benefits; every few months check-in to see if you’re still on the same page. Once someone catches feelings, the dynamic changes, and not always for the best in the midst of just wanting to have fun. Do you, be safe but communicate enough so someone doesn’t get hurt.

CLOSING REMARKS

This is Ms. Gotta Love Me herself T-Quest & you’ve just been Questified! Show love by commenting, sharing & following me on social media @TQuestGLM Email me topics to discuss & QUESTions you may have. To learn more about the one & only T-Quest or to hear about certain topics in-depth please download my “T-Quest” app in your google play store & your app store. On the app, you’ll be able to hear Gotta Love Me Radio 24/7. Visit my website www.GottaLoveMeWorld.com to buy any merchandise as well as my music. Check out more of T-Quest articles  here: https://www.straightofficial.com/?s=The+Quest+Chronicles

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The T-Quest Chronicles: I Got This

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The T-Quest Chronicles: I Got This I think it’s funny when people are looking at me and I just be dancing, moving my body, bopping to a beat that doesn’t exist to the world. People are having the puzzle look on trying to figure out what I’m listening to and in reality, I’m listening to absolutely nothing. You don’t see any headphones, Bluetooth or music playing because there is none. I just dance to my own beat. I am on a natural high, full of life that my body just moves.

The main reason why I stay dancing is because I’m a happy person. I control my energy, I control the space I desire to be in and I have full control over ME! Many of us allow people to tank our vibe. Throughout the day someone is always mad at somebody about something. Maybe something they’ve done, said or whatever. Don’t get me wrong, this happens to me too but after I have my small moment of being annoyed; I’ll handle the situation and keep it moving.

Dwelling on something that’s not that relevant is a waste of time. time waits for no man and I will not allow someone to waste my time. That’s when I remember what’s important, regroup and go about my day. A lot of the things I say are easier said than done but it still has to be said. There’s nothing wrong with reminders. What I write is like blog affirmations so pay attention, apply and start dancing to your own beat. trust me, you’ll enjoy it!

The T-Quest Chronicles: I Got This

CLOSING REMARKS

This is Ms. Gotta Love Me herself T-Quest & you’ve just been Questified! Show love by commenting, sharing & following me on social media @TQuestGLM Email me topics to discuss & QUESTions you may have. To learn more about the one & only T-Quest or to hear about certain topics in-depth please download my “T-Quest” app in your google play store & your app store. On the app, you’ll be able to hear Gotta Love Me Radio 24/7. Visit my website www.GottaLoveMeWorld.com to buy any merchandise as well as my music. Check out more of T-Quest articles and more amazement here: https://www.straightofficial.com/?s=The+Quest+Chronicles

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